Cultures and TraditionsFeaturedYorubaYoruba History

The Origin Of ‘Iyawo’, The Yoruba Word For Wife

Yoruba traditional pre wedding shoot
©Bunmi Adedipe Photography

It is unknown to many speakers of the Yoruba language that the original Yoruba word for wife is ‘aya’ and not the commonly used ‘Iyawo’.

Back in the early years of the Yoruba people, the word Iyawo did not have a place in the Yoruba language not until an incident brought about its coinage and usage. OldNaija present you the origin of the Yoruba word Iyawo.

Origin of the Yoruba word Iyawo

Long ago in Yoruba land, a beautiful princess and daughter of the first king of Iwo town named Wuraola was in the quest of getting herself a patient, tolerant and well mannered husband.

Strong and good looking men, the likes of Sango, Ogun and others, had already traveled to Iwo town to seek the hand of Wuraola in marriage but left not with a wife but uncontrollable anger. Wurola had been rude to everyone of them. In fact, she hurled insults and curses at her suitors which made them all leave on the same day they arrived the town of Iwo because they couldn’t tolerate her bad behaviors.

Orunmila, a good looking man, also journeyed to Iwo in the bid to win the hand of Wuraola in marriage. But before he set out, he had already consulted Olodumare, the supreme being, through Ifa. Olodumare revealed to Orunmila that he must be patient with Wuraola and endure her behaviors no matter how bad they are in order to succeed in the quest of marrying Wuraola.

When Orunmila got to the palace of the king of Iwo, he was greeted with a hiss and scornful look by Wuraola. The unperturbed Orunmila smiled and returned her greetings with kind and sweet words and also presented gifts to the king.

Orunmila stayed in Iwo for seven days which can be described as nothing but a hell on earth. Wuraola didn’t serve Orunmila water let alone food. She insulted the goodness out of Orunmila but he stayed calm and smiled at her. He even smiled when she used his opon ifa (divination board) as firewood and when she took his pouch (apo ominijekun) from him. Though, Orunmila boiled with rage, still, he didn’t show it or leave Iwo according to the instructions of Olodumare.

On the sixth day of Orunmila’s stay in Iwo town, the king of Iwo gave Wuraola in marriage to him after concluding that he is a patient, kind and tolerant man suitable to marry his daughter. Meanwhile, Wuraola’s bad behaviors were planned to test her suitors so as to get her a husband with good manners and temper. She was a lovely, caring and well behaved lady. Orunmila was glad that he heeded to the instructions of Olodumare and on the seventh day, he and Wuraola journey back to his town.

Orunmila was welcomed and praised by his townspeople for his achievement. When they asked him about Wuraola, his wife, he responded, “Iya ti mo je ni Iwo” (my sufferings in Iwo) That was how wives became known as Iya-Iwo (sufferings in Iwo) and now Iyawo.

Thanks for reading, OldNaija.com

Cite this article as: Teslim Omipidan. (August 28, 2018). The Origin Of ‘Iyawo’, The Yoruba Word For Wife. OldNaija. Retrieved from https://oldnaija.com/2018/08/28/the-origin-of-iyawo-the-yoruba-word-for-wife/

Questions? Advert? Click here to mail us or click here to call us.

10 Comments

  1. Bro I wouldn’t lie I don’t think you should be added among the top 100 most Influential youth in Nigeria instead that position should only be meant for you. No body suppose drag am with u. What I wasn’t taught in class are all here. Both past and recent. Man u are good. Have been looking for things like dis for almost two years and finally my prayers got answered today. May God bless you for sharing is important history and fact with dis generation.

  2. Waoooo man you are good, I have not come across this before. I believe if we ask most of our old man/woman in yoruba land they will not know it.
    Kudos to you man

  3. Friend: Guy how your wife na
    Husband: Ìyàwó mi wà nílé (The suffer wey I go suffer for Iwo dey house 😂)

    My husband shuu just be calling me obìin mi (my woman) from today 😹

Leave a Reply. OldNaija loves your comment.

Back to top button